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Monday, June 26, 2017

Welcome A Season of Hope Guest Post- Sarah Jacobs


Welcome, Sarah, Congratulations on your new book. Please tell us about it.

 A Season of Hope is an Inspirational Romance. When Amanda Jarvis prays that a special friend will move into the vacant house near her isolated mountain home, she isn't upset when God sends a boy instead of a girl. But Amanda's not the only one receiving unexpected answers to her prayers. After fleeing with his mother from an abusive father, Tyler Armstrong finds much-needed love and acceptance with Amanda's family over the next ten years. As high school graduation nears, Tyler is shocked when one carefree afternoon with Amanda churns up an inner turmoil he would have never imagined; he's crushing on his best friend. And for the first time in his life he's hiding a secret from Amanda. Convinced the timing is all wrong, Tyler pushes his feelings aside as he and Amanda prepare for the future. He will soon begin training to pursue his dream of becoming a Navy SEAL, while Amanda makes plans to spend the summer in Manhattan with her aunt and then return home to the community college. When Amanda's summer job catapults her into a modeling career, she readily accepts the much-needed distraction. Tyler's impending deployment is turning her world upside down. Along with the fact that she's falling for her best friend. And, for the first time in her relationship with Tyler, she's hiding a secret, too. Phoebe Garrison, Amanda's controlling aunt, is thrilled when she is given the power to act on behalf of her underage niece. Bored with her Fortune 500 advertising agency, becoming Amanda's manager is just what she's been looking for to rekindle her aspirations. But as Tyler becomes aware of Phoebe's obsession to push Amanda into supermodel status, tensions rise. As the three of them become entangled in a mass of concealed ambition and desire, each will make decisions that will send ripples of turbulence across their futures.

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About the Author: I began writing as a hobby while raising my two children. In 2015, I dusted off my stories and my dreams to see if I could turn my hobby into a career. My first story, Season of Hope, was inspired by summer vacations which always included a trip to Franklin, North Carolina, to visit family and explore The Smoky Mountains. When I'm not writing, I enjoy spending time with family. I love most any activity that involves being outdoors, especially camping, hiking and spontaneous excursions to splash in the ocean. I currently live along the Emerald Coast of Florida with my cat Selah and her delightful offspring, Colby, Jack and Tuesday. Author contact links:
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Monday, June 19, 2017

DANCING ON HOLY GROUND

Chills went down my spine the first time I heard the voice of God in the movie  The Ten Commandments.  
  "put off thy shoes from off thy feet, for the place whereon thou standest is holy ground."

My 5-year-old brain truly thought it was God.  


I wanted to take my shoes off and obey, even if our household was far from serving God.
 Twenty-two years later, God saved my miserable soul.
 I still get the chills when I see Moses bow down to God and take off his sandals. Now I know it was just an actor.
Of course, my favorite Hymn is Holy Ground
As a new believer, I looked forward to singing it.
One Sunday morning, as the congregation sang,"We are standing on Holy Ground..."  the Spirit convicted my heart. 
...If you believe this, why do you go out to clubs and dance while the guys ogle you? 

Ouch!  Was that God speaking to me?   
 The previous night, my sister and I went to a dance club with friends.  I love to dance.  In fact, I have won contests for limbo, twist and free dancing.  What's wrong with dancing?
We considered leaving early after a guy said something rude and provocative about my dancing.
My sister and I felt a twinge of conviction but did not act on it.


As I finished singing the song, conviction and sorrow overwhelmed me. 
I repented immediately.
Wherever I go, God is with me.  His Spirit lives in me.
I'm always standing on Holy Ground.
I realized it wasn't the dancing that displeased God (King David danced); it was the way I danced.  It provoked men to stumble. If I truly admit it, I wanted the attention.
As I grow in the Lord I see how wrong I was. 
I still dance.  I do not go out to clubs.  I dance in my house and in the homes of family and friends.  
 My favorite place to dance is in my kitchen during the early morning.  I raise my arms in praise and dance unto the Lord.  No award can measure up to the joy and peace I feel when I dance in the presence of my King.
May I always remember that I'm on Holy Ground, whether I am at the grocery store, movie theater, or in my home.
Where is your Holy Ground?
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Tuesday, June 13, 2017

ACHIEVING "O" STATUS

I love a beautiful summer night.  The stars intrigue me. God's speckled lights bring me joy as I admire how He orchestrated patterns for our enjoyment.  
The twinkle of a star is a God wink to me.
 For fun, I researched star classifications. After all, God created them and His Word states we will shine like stars in the universe.
...then you will shine among them like stars in the sky as you hold firmly to the word of life.- Philippians 2:14 NIV
I love the thought of being light in the darkness.
I derived information from Atlas of the Universe:
·         Stars are given classifications according to their surface temperature and brightness. 
The classes are O, B, A, F, G, K, and M. The O stars are the hottest, M stars the coolest.
·         O stars are rare but bright.
·         M stars are numerous but dim.
·         Our sun’s classification is somewhere in the middle.
I took the liberty and used these classifications to represent Christians as stars.
Since O is the hottest and most rare, I classified it as Obedient. Complete obedience is rare-I know it is for me.
Oh, to always be obedient to the Master, a bright light to lead many to righteousness. 
And those who are wise shall shine like the brightness of the sky above; and those who turn many to righteousness, like the stars forever and ever (Daniel 12:3).
The more numerous yet weaker stars are M-Mediocre. No one wants to be mediocre with low quality, value, ability, or performance. 
Notice the word mediocre begins with me. Life is me-focused, not caring to put in the effort it takes to shine brightly. 
I've chosen mediocrity instead of obedience.
So, because you are lukewarm, and neither hot nor cold, I will spit you out of my mouth (Revelation 3:16). 
I don’t want to be spit out. However, I've left a bad taste in His mouth.
I knew God wanted me to call a friend to see how she was doing. I did not want to speak with her because she complained and recited the same stories. Years with a counselor did not help her.  
I almost obeyed God and sent an email. 
An email was safe-mediocre.
You need to call her, the Spirit echoed in my head.
I ignored it.
Call her!
Lord, I don't want to hear the same stories over and over.
A few days passed.
Call her now!
I said, But Lord...
The Spirit interrupted, I did not ask you to heal her, that is my job, just listen like I listen to you.
I wanted to cry- I blatantly disobeyed and tried to justify my half-hearted attempt with an email. 
I remembered my pastor's words, "Partial obedience is disobedience."
I called.
She recited the same stories, but my attitude changed-I desired to listen to her like the Lord listens to me.
Complete obedience brought peace to my heart.
When it comes to serving God, I desire to serve with a wholehearted devotion and a willing mind, giving my best because he gave his best for me.
I still fall short- I praise God for His grace and mercy.
Now, when I observe the evening sky, I'm reminded to shine like an "O" star.

I'm an "M" star working on "O" status through prayer and Bible study.
What star are you? 


Do you have any advice on how we can achieve  "O" status?
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Tuesday, June 6, 2017

It's Complimentary!

Do you find it difficult to accept a compliment? 
As a speaker, I'd receive accolades.
 I knew I could not teach without the power and wisdom of the Holy Spirit. Replying with a "thank you" alone made me feel like I took the glory and didn't give to God?
When I said, "Don't thank me, It's all God," the person left looking bewildered.
I've been asked how to receive compliments by Christians seeking to please God,

"Cherrilynn, I know God gave me this voice, how do I accept a compliment without sounding prideful?"

"Cherrilynn, I don't feel comfortable taking a compliment when God gave me the talent to play the piano."

God has given each of His children talents and gifts, so how do we glorify Him when we are praised for using them?

As believers, we are commanded to give Him the glory.

In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven.-Mathew 5:16 ESV

Therefore, as it is written: "Let the one who boasts boast in the Lord. 1 Corinthians 1:31 NIV

When we are tempted to take the glory for ourselves, God is not pleased.
We can follow Jesus' example.  Jesus answered Satan after being tempted.


And Jesus answered him, “It is written, “‘You shall worship the Lord your God, and him only shall you serve.’” Luke 4:8 ESV

If anyone deserves glory it is Jesus, but He showed us how to handle the temptation to bask in the glory that belongs to God. 

I desired to received attention. 
I did not receive it from my earthly father. I was abused and ridiculed by him.
Like everyone, I just needed to feel loved.
I found myself interrupting people mid-sentence, what I had to say was important, wasn't it?
I dated guys who admired me but I had no business spending time with them.
The limelight was my place to shine.
After many years of studying the Bible and praying Scripture, many of my selfish desires changed.
I now realize God loves me unconditionally.
No more permanent void!
No more mission to be in the limelight. 
 Now, I long to point people to the One who rescued me from the darkness. 
When pride knocks on my door, I answer it with the truth. (tweet this)
I remind myself Christ died on the cross for my sin, apart from Him I can do nothing to please God.
 Jesus made this statement:
I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing. John 15:5
 My heart fills with joy knowing God gives me the power and wisdom to complete the work He ordained for me. 
God uses me and you to further His Kingdom and bless others.
Yes, we have a part in all of this. 
Obedience. 
We need to take the time to study and practice.

So how do we accept a compliment knowing we worked hard with God to bless others with the talent He gave us?

As I prayed, The Spirit gave me a few responses.
"Thank you, I praise God for using me."
"Praise God and thank you."
"Thank you! Isn't God good to use us to bless one another."


God knows our heart. 

When I desire to be the center of attention, I repent and ask God to heal me of any pain and to fill my void of loneliness, doubt, or worry with His Love.

Do you find it difficult to receive compliments? How do you handle it?  Join the conversation.




Tuesday, May 30, 2017

HYPER-FOCUSED

 I left the 2015 Writer to Writer retreat early.  There was an ice storm predicted to hit the east coast late afternoon, and I wanted to get ahead of it. 
 I left Hershey, PA for Rhode Island at 7 am, waving goodbye to all the free chocolate.
Coffee in hand, check, the gas tank full, Check, Leaving early enough to beat the storm...   
Less than one hour into the drive it began to rain.  
It is only rain, I said to myself as I noticed a sand truck in front of me.


He must be getting ready for the snow storm this afternoon.  Good job, guys, preparing early! 
 Yes, I talk to myself as I drive.  
Blue flashing lights interrupted my conversation.
I hope no one is hurt,
I gasped as I drove by the black four-door car that looked like a large can opener removed its entire roof.   
Lord, are the roads that bad? I left early enough to avoid the storm!  
 I white knuckled my steering wheel, talking to God with more intensity.  I drove less than a mile.
  Another car off the road, 
Hey, isn't that the girl who just passed me?   
I was frightened.  
Lord, what do I do?
 I was so focused on the road in front of me I barely noticed the cars passing me.  I glanced toward my side mirror.
 My car is encased in ice, Lord, please help me! I am so frightened right now! WHAT DO I DO?
Yes, I am a New Englander but I hate driving in the ice and snow.
  More blue lights were directly in front of me.  I gripped the wheel tighter as I drove past another horrible scene.  
Another car that passed me was lodged 20 feet in a tree off the road and a different car disintegrated, almost unrecognizable, about 100 feet from it.  I began to shake and cry.   
I  called my sister who lives in Rhode Island. (no I did not take my hands off the wheel) 
I needed to hear a friendly voice in case I was the next tragedy of this storm. 
Get off the road now and find a hotel. I will pay for it, my sister said.
She did not have to tell me twice.  I immediately got off the highway to safety.  The car made it to the hotel and only then did I slide, right into the parking space.
It took me the rest of the day to stop shaking.  I could not stop thanking the Lord for His protection.
No matter what life throws at me, I try to find a spiritual lesson. (click to tweet)
Concerning my thrill ride, the lesson seems obvious.  God protects.  However, there was another lesson for me to learn.  
 Enlarge my focus.  I had tunnel vision for the first part of my journey.  I did not see the potential danger until I reached a car accident.  
There are times in life that we must take a look around us, to assess the situation. 
When I finally looked at my side view mirror, I knew that I was in trouble.  I immediately fixed my eyes back on the road and drove to safety.  
The police closed the Highway just minutes after I arrived at the Hotel.  
There were over 400 accidents that morning, three resulting in death.


As I look back (quickly) at that terrifying car ride, I thank God for teaching me that proper focus is vital.
  Dangers can come from every angle, at times we won't see it, but God does.
 Has hyper-focus effected your life?
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Tuesday, May 16, 2017

GUILT BUSTER





 Everything was my fault.  At least that is how I felt . 
If a friend or family member was unhappy I blamed myself. If there was a deadly tornado in the mid west, somehow it was my fault because I did not pray about it.  If two people were whispering it had to be about me.
What a selfish mindset. I needed freedom from guilt and self condemnation.



There are two kinds of guilt. 

Before salvation- Everyone stands guilty of sin before God. We are judged by the Law or 10 Commandments.


Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned: Romans 5:12 KJV


For whoever keeps the whole law but fails in one point has become accountable for all of it. James 2:10 ESV


After salvation- We feel guilty when we sin against our Father in Heaven.

Therefore, as one trespass led to condemnation for all men, so one act of righteousness leads to justification and life for all men. Romans 5:18 ESV

So I find it to be a law that when I want to do right, evil lies close at hand. Wretched man that I am! Who will deliver me from this body of death? Romans 7:21,24


Before Salvation


I think of Isaiah 6:1-6

In the year that King Uzziah died I saw the Lord sitting upon a throne, high and lifted up; and the train of his robe filled the temple.  Above him stood the seraphim. Each had six wings: with two he covered his face, and with two he covered his feet, and with two he flew. And one called to another and said:
“Holy, holy, holy is the Lord of hosts;
the whole earth is full of his glory!”
And the foundations of the thresholds shook at the voice of him who called, and the house was filled with smoke.  And I said: “Woe is me! For I am lost;for I am a man of unclean lips, and I dwell in the midst of a people of unclean lips; for my eyes have seen the King, the Lord of hosts!”
 Then one of the seraphim flew to me, having in his hand a burning coal that he had taken with tongs from the altar. And he touched my mouth and said: “Behold, this has touched your lips; your guilt is taken away, and your sin atoned for.”

 Isaiah was a righteous, godly man by all outward appearance. Yet when he saw God in His splendor and holiness,  he acknowledged how sinful he was in comparison.

 Isaiah's sin had to be burned away; the fire of judgment was applied to his sin. Once Isaiah  had been convicted of his sin, and cleanse from its guilt, then he was ready to serve God.



All believers are here to serve God.  We still sin.  So what do we do with that guilty feeling?


After Salvation


If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. 1 John 1:9 ESV


This is agreeing with God that what we did was wrong and asking Him to provide the strength to walk in righteousness.


So why do we still feel guilty?  
When we sin against our God we have a spiritual wound that needs to heal. The feeling is the healing process, not guilt.
Our enemy wants us to keep feeling guilty.
The truth. We stand righteous before God 

 even as he chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless before him. In love Ephesians 1:4 ESV


Know that your heavenly Father loves you and disciplines you.  

He does not want you walking around feeling guilty or defeated.

As I learned this I began to focus on my Abba and not myself.   I claimed His promises.  

Now, I am free.

Do you struggle with guilty feelings?




Let us draw near to God with a sincere heart and with the full assurance that faith brings, having our hearts sprinkled to cleanse us from a guilty conscience and having our bodies washed with pure water. Hebrews 10:22 NIV


Tuesday, May 9, 2017

WORTH REMEMBERING



There are events in life that are worth remembering- weddings, birthdays and other special moments. 
My best memory?  The day the Lord took my hand in His and we began our journey together. That was 27 years ago.
 My sister Charlene needed prayer. She lived in Hawaii at the time.  We live in New England.
 I searched for a church that was open during the day. 
None!
 However, Wood River Baptist Church in Hope Valley, RI held a prayer meeting every Tuesday night at 7 pm.
 I walked through the doors of the little white chapel with my younger sister Jessie.
 I remember three of the eight people who were there. 
Jimmy Stewart’s mom, Pastor Bell, and my sister, who took Jesus’ other hand that night. 
As Jessie and I entered, a gray-haired lady motioned for me to sit on the piano bench next to her. As I sat down I recognized her.  Guilt set in.
 As teenagers, we went to Jimmy Stewart's house and listen to ACDC, KISS and other rock bands.  Jimmy was banned from having friends over when his mom was at work. God reminded me of one moment, as we left Jimmy’s bedroom to go home.  Jimmy's mom was sitting in her rocking chair with hands folded.  
Was she praying before she killed us? I thought to myself, trying to leave unnoticed.
My stomached turned and my face reddened with embarrassment as she smiled her angelic smile and waved goodbye to us.  No judgment about the music, no mention of disobeying her rule.  We hurried out of the house and nervously giggled all the way home.  
That same angelic smile from the past was sitting next to me on the piano bench.  I told her we were there to pray for our oldest sister, Charlene, who was going through some difficult problems.
"I remember Charlene, she finished High School early." Her sky blue eyes focused on me.
 Pastor Bell came into the sanctuary and asked Jessie and me to follow him.  Before I stood up, Jimmy’s mom put her hand on my knee, lovingly looked into my eyes and said, “If you accept Jesus as your Savior you can still wear makeup!”  To this day I still chuckle about her statement.  Maybe she thought I was only concerned about beauty.
My sister Jessie and I followed  Pastor Bell into his office.
 We shared our concern for our sister.  He prayed for her. Then he asked, "Do you know Jesus?"  We both looked at each other, "No!" we said in unison.  He asked if He could share something with us.  We both nodded, yes. He led us through, what I now know as “The Romans Road” to salvation. 

Romans 3:23 – for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.-
Romans 3:10– As it is written: “There is none righteous, no, not one;
Romans 5:12  – Therefore, just as through one man sin entered the world, and death through sin, and thus death spread to all men, because all sinned–
Romans 6:23  – For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Romans 5:8 – But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.
Romans 10:9-10  – that if you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart one believes unto righteousness, and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation
Romans 10:13  – For “whoever calls on the name of the LORD shall be saved.”
Romans 10:17  – So then faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.

I knew that I was a sinner separated from God.  I desired the love of God to fill my empty aching soul.
"Would you like to have a relationship with Jesus?"
 Jessie said, "Yes!"
 I blurted out “But I am not good enough for Jesus”.   
The childhood abuse at the hands of my biological father consumed my thoughts.  If my own father doesn't want me why would a Holy God want me?
 The pastor said, “I will be right back, I have something to show you.”  I watched as he took a green book off the shelf and made a copy of one of the pages.  
“This song from our hymnal may help.”  As I read the following words, tears filled my eyes. I said "YES" to the free gift of eternal life found only in Jesus.

               Just as I am, without one plea,
                but that thy blood was shed for me,
                and that thou bidst me come to thee,
                O Lamb of God, I come, I come.
That was the best day of my life.  God accepts me just as I am, broken and flawed. 
I always smile when I remember Jimmy's mom, Pastor Bell, and Jessie. They shared in the most important day of my life.  My very own sister and I met Jesus the same day, now that's worth remembering.

Do you remember the day Jesus took your hand?
Rejoice in your re-birth day.

If that day has not yet happened for you, go back and meditate on The Romans Road.
 If God is calling you say "Yes"  and take the hand of Jesus.
Life can be difficult, even with the Lord at your side. However, imagine what life would be like without Him there to guide you, comfort you and teach you?  
Take His hand, believe and make today a day worth remembering.
Do you have a day worth remembering? I'd love to her about it.  Please join the conversation?